Habits

We all have habits, some are good habits, some not so good. Habits are part of our behavior in all the areas of our life. Some people are very organized, Take Jess for instance, her work papers and planner… are so organized and color coded! It seems to come easy to her when it comes to important items like work. She started this habit very young as a student and has carried this habit into adulthood. I on the other hand, really must focus on keeping myself somewhat organized. I was never an organized student, well compared to my kid. But at the same time, I know it’s a “weak” spot for me so I do what I can to make small positive changes to be better organized.  This is an issue I could easily talk to a stranger about, and they would be happy to make suggestions and share their organizational skills or lack of them as well…

When it comes to our money habits. We NEVER want to talk about them. Nope, we don’t want to share that stuff! We all have money habits, again some good, some not so good. Let’s be realistic, we can’t fix all our bad money habits overnight, and maybe we don’t have to fix all of them? Maybe some are not that bad?  But I am guessing we secretly have some things we do repeatedly, that we say to ourselves, why do I do this to myself. 

In today’s world with so much online banking and automation that we can do, some of these bad habits might be easier than we think to break. To really start to make changes, you need to be honest with yourself as to what is a problem.  Write it down! Put it on paper and look at IT! Just ONE problem, not all or many of them if there is a list… Own it! Then write out the steps you need to take to make this a bad habit you no longer have.  Maybe you share your bad habit you are trying to break with someone you know will emotionally support you. That might be a spouse, a good friend, a co-worker.

Setting a goal is easy, executing it, not always as easy.  Maybe just saying the habit out load to someone and talking about it will be the biggest step. After that it might get easier to mentally tackle the habit. Good luck, stay focused and you got this!

Week Three Money Challenge

We spent the last 2 weeks looking back at our bank statements over the last three months or so to see how we can FREE up $100.00-$200.00 per month. That “Found” money we put 1/2 in a retirement account we already had, or we started one. The other half we put in the “emergency fund” which hopefully is in a high yield savings account. While you were scrolling those bank statements/activities online, did anything else jump out at you? Maybe there were things like your debit card at the grocery store! Maybe there were random trips here and there that you see a credit card or debit purchase? It’s not pretty sometimes, right? Sometimes it feels like money just passes through our hands like water…. ☹

Being more mindful of WHAT you spend money on might help us NOT spend as much???  Everything we do in life in general seems to be due to a “habit”. So what if we make a habit of really thinking about IF we really need to spend money on certain things or items, vs the impulse to spend. It’s hard! I get it! Maybe we say ok this week my budget for groceries is $100.00 that’s it! I will use cash only and really plan for the week as well as plan meals out. I am assuming this for a family of four.

Maybe it requires you to go to two or three different stores over the weekend to get everything you need. Assuming the stores are not far from each other, maybe it’s worth it! I started buying things at ALDi and another main grocery store than the one at the bottom of my street. I did some rough math and saved at least $30.00 this week! I even googled some coupons and saved on things like the special dog food at the pet store! Hey, it all adds up! Little by little more money ends up in our pocket vs out of our pockets. Your challenge for this week is MIND SET! Be aware of what you’re spending money on. Do I REALLY need this? Is this product sold some place else cheaper? EX. I buy my organic spinach at BJ’s, which is the same price at my grocery store, but at BJ’s it’s three times the size and I freeze it!  Let’s only buy what we need for a few weeks and see if we have some extra cash at the end of the month before the next check shows up. That’s how we start moving in the right direction, living on LESS THAN WE MAKE!! Not saying it’s easy, but it is possible…. We do this EVERY month. This is our NEW Habit.

Week Two Money Challenge!

Hi everyone,

So how did we do last week with finding an extra $50.00-$100 in our monthly budget to allocate to our long term/retirement accounts?! Again, the goal here is to keep us all accountable! Its like getting up at 5 AM to meet your friend for a run! You get up, because you know they are getting up! This blog is a support blog to keep us moving forward. If you miss a week or, have a weak moment and buy a new pair of shoes… Just get back at it! After all we are only human.

For week two, lets focus on re-looking at our monthly spending and really digging into where we are spending TO MUCH $$$!!!  I personally found 2 items, that I KNOW I cancelled, and YET there they were back on my monthly charges! I finally got that fixed! It was only a combined total of $40.00, but still.

Once you re-look at the past three -four months of your spending we now need to find another $50.00-$100.00 in the budget to build the emergency fund! The goal is to get to three months of expenses. But the first goal is to get to $1000 in that fund. Let’s make part of this week’s challenge to have that money go into a high yield savings account! This is different than a regular saving account. There are several to choose from. Some suggestions are SoFi, Marcus by Goldman Sachs, Citizens… Many to choose from. Just make sure you can open it with NO fees, and NO min. Read all the terms as well. Most of these accounts are Online ONLY.  It’s been a long time since your money could make 4%-5% interest in a SAVINGS account. This is NOT a CD account. It’s a high yield saving account and you can get at your money at any time, unlike a retirement account.

Should you have any questions on how these accounts work, there are usually 1-800 numbers to call and talk to someone.

So that’s your WEEK TWO Challenge! Find $50-$100 a month, set to automatically funnel into a High Yield Saving account with a goal to get to $1000 to be the start of your emergency fund! Remember when we set it to happen automatically, and treat it like a bill, you will make it happen!! We pay ourselves first!!! Good Luck! You got this!!!

Week One Money Challenge!

This blog” Two Chicks Talking Money” is for other woman like us, just regular people with regular jobs. Getting financially “literate” is intimidating and may seem overwhelming.  That’s why we have each other! It’s not going to take much to get the ball rolling and start learning. We are not going to become day traders and must understand every technical term about the stock market. We are also not going to talk about investing in any ONE stock. We are going to INVEST in the market though!

Let’s do ONE Challenge each week, to up our financial position. Little steps in the right direction…

This week, Lets find an extra $50.00-$100.00 you can put into your retirement account AUTOMATICALLY, so that this happens EVERY month AUTOMATICLY.

IF you do not have a tax deferred retirement account at work, investigate opening a ROTH IRA or a traditional IRA. Get online or walk into a Fidelity office. They will take it from there.

We can do this! That’s this week’s challenge!

If you have never read the book The Millionaire Next Door, by Thomas J Stanley & William D Danko. You must pick it up and read this! It is motivating and makes you believe Yes; I too can do this!

Now don’t get me wrong this is NOT a get rich fast book or some fast-track way to get to the finish line. These days we only have ourselves to ensure we have money to survive when we are older and no longer able or willing to work. How quickly we get to that finish line, well that does depend on how much you save. The younger you start, even with a small amount, the faster it grows. So, when we think of the word INVESTING, we do this!! This can be in a company retirement plan, like a 401K. 403b…. Or even just a brokerage account. BUT we MUST set money aside for it to grow. Let’s also not get worked up on when the “Market” goes down, it will, we know this! It will also go up! Ya more for us!!! So what do we do when the market goes down??? I say BUY MORE! If the market is DOWN (And we are not pulling money out because we are already retired) Up your monthly contribution! Even if it’s only $50.00 more a month. Hey, it’s a SALE on STOCKS! Right!? What Chick does not like a sale!!! That’s what it is accentually. It’s all good! Clean your “Closet” aka, stop paying for things you do not need every month… Subscriptions for streaming, a latte EVERY day… Girl, that’s $100.00 a month if the Latte is Monday- Friday! Let’s not even get into the calories and the sugar! I LOVE Lattes, but not 5 days a week. Let’s fill the “closet” with more Index funds! 😊 Good Luck this week!