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Your Emergency Fund, is that the right name for it you may ask?

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I was listening to a podcast this morning asking this very question. Well, I guess it really doesn’t matter what you call it. I think whatever “You” name it is what it is. The term “emergency funds” is not a comfortable term for you? That is fine, whatever works for you right? After all it’s called “personal” finance.

Building an emergency fund is crucial, no matter what you call it. It is the FIRST thing any financially savvy person would advise you to do. Most of us might get into credit card debt because we charge things on a card. This happens because we do not have the cash. I don’t mean just the small items we buy. Coffee here and there or lunch can certainly add up! The big stuff that is not part of your typical expenses. This is your deductible for a car repair or medical bill.

The refrigerator stops working. The faucet on the kitchen sink falls off in your hands. It happens at 9 PM on a Saturday night! Ya that happened! This is what an emergency fund or whatever you want to call it, is for! Life happens, and sometimes it’s very stressful! NOT having some extra cash to pay for these unexpected things makes it VERY stressful. In the long run, it becomes more expensive.

When I think of an emergency fund, I think of 3-6 months of expenses in accessible cash. This is what most of us consider necessary in case you lose your job. If your expenses are $3,000 a month then you have $9,000-$18,000 in savings. This is NO easy task to get to this point, and maybe you never get to a full 3 months. But it’s a good idea to try and worse case you have something to lean on.

This is not to say that you only spend this money IF you find yourself out of work! Your emergency fund, or whatever you name it, only has $200 in the account. I like to think of it as the de-stress fund.

But let’s say you get a flat tire and need to get it fixed so you can get to work. That $200 in the emergency fund can help you do that. This fund saves you from putting more on that credit card you are trying to pay down. How much you have in this fund is really a preference and what you need to be comfortable with. Remember this “fund” takes several months to build. It can take a year to reach your personal goal for the fund. Think of this “account” as a revolving door. Money will come out and the balance goes down. Next month, you cut out a few extras. You put that money into the emergency fund instead. The goal is to have money set aside for the “unexpected”.

And NO this is NOT what the “credit limit” or CASH advance on your credit card is for! It is NOT something you should use for your unexpected stuff! Assuming you can help it…That is NOT an emergency fund! IF this is what you use as the emergency fund, the odds are good this will spiral out of control. Everything we do related to personal finance takes time.  When you make minor changes along the way, they start to stack up. Now you have created a new positive habit. Whatever you call this special account really does not matter… Just work on creating one! Get through the first few months of building this account and trust me you will feel empowered.  It’s a new year, so get on it! Next year at this time, you will look back and see the progress you have made. The sense of calm this will bring you is undeniable.  Good luck, you got this! 😊

Kickstart Your 2025 with New Habits

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New Year, New Habits…???

Here we are at the end of another year!  Why is it that the end of the year is when most of us fall off the deep end and any bad habit we might have is now X10! You start the new year thinking you are going to eat better and be more mindful of your spending so you can save more! BUT we get to December every year and ALL that goes out the window! It’s Christmas Day 2024, and the day is not even over, heck the year is not even over, and I am ready to re-set!

I think I have had my fill of sweets and “grazing” on fun food people have delivered and or sent as a holiday gift. Don’t get me wrong, I love it ALL! That’s the problem. 😊

I am also ready to stop spending my money on all those last- minute stressed out, how did I forget about that person, gifts too. Too much stress! So today. Ok  maybe tomorrow, I will start getting back on my schedule with both food and budgeting. I am approaching 2025 with small steps each week or month to move in the right direction. I am making my to-do list, and I think I will actually LOOK at this list every couple of weeks, so that I can feel guilty IF I do not start getting things checked off this list! The list is the only thing that will keep me accountable, and it will help me work on my mental toughness. 😊 In order to keep the to-Do List reasonable and reachable, I will make the “items” attainable and not be too hard on myself if it takes a few weeks to do them.

I will stay focused on how great I am going to feel if I have one action item a month to complete and let’s say 6 or 7 get done by the end of the year and it sticks as a new positive habit! That would be amazing!

Some of the smaller items will be things like, cancelling a fairly new gym membership that’s just not working for me. I have decided I would rather stay at my old gym.

Another item on the to-do list is to investigate my husband’s cell phone rate. I think they are OVER charging him, a customer, for 10 years vs the current plans they offer existing customers. Cell phone companies lower the plan rates, BUT I think I must reach out to them and ask for that lower rate? Not really sure, but I need to check it out.  These little things you need to watch because they are banking on you NOT paying attention. It’s not nice. ☹Same goes for the Car insurance. I need to re-look at that too!

All these little things that take time and money out of our pockets because the mental energy we need to expand to get these tasks done is painful. The goal in 2025 is to push past this.

I tried this same thing last year, although I did not keep an actual list, I did make some small positive moves in the right direction that I am proud of, like increasing my 401K contributions each month and automating it. It was quick & easy and only a few % points, but it was done! I really did not notice the difference in my take home pay. I also cancelled 2 subscriptions; I was NOT using them.  

I was determined to save money on my cable and wi-fi bill too! Ok that one was very challenging and after 3 hours in the store, I lowered the bill by about $20.00 a month. My goal was $50.00 a month, which did not happen. ☹ BUT if I switched to that provider for my cell phone, I could save $80.00 a month, so I did! Hey, I was not leaving there after 3 hours of my time without a WIN!

Looking back, I guess I did make some positive changes in 2024, and maybe me and everyone else just accepts the fact that December is the one month we go off the rails a little. (key word here) and spend more money than other months, but we spend that money on family/friends and memories….  Enjoy the last week of the year and when setting 2025 goals, keep them realistic so that you can hit those goals and build on that!

Happy Holidays!!!

Is Employer Matching Going Toward Student Loans a Good Idea?

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At the beginning of 2024 there were some changes to the employer side of the 401k contribution and student loan repayment. Well, for some companies that now allow an employee to get their “match money” to not go into the 401K, but to go toward matching what the employee paid toward a student loan that year. EX. If an employer’s match for say 4% each year would have allowed you to have an added $3,000 contributed to your 401K, assuming you too contributed the $3,000 at a minimum, you could have that employer match of $3,000 go toward the student load debt instead. Of course, you too would have had to put $3.000 at a min. toward that debt as well. Remember it’s a match. Not every company will allow this, because I am sure it’s a human resource challenge this early on with this new rule. Regardless, is this a good thing?  There are several people dealing with huge student loan debt, and we hear a lot of conversation around it, like it’s not fair, its right and the government should forgive student loans for people taking jobs like teachers and social workers…

Hey, I get it! But we hear very little about “educating” people about financial literacy while in High School and how to make better choices as to the schools you go to. If you want to be a teacher, WHY would you go to a private college, assuming you are tsking out large loans.  They will not pay you more because you spent more. Remember State Colleges are supplemented with tax dollars, that’s why they are less money. Don’t think that makes them less of a school. I also know state colleges are pricy too these days, but at least in most cases they are half the cost. If you need to piece it together and start at a community college for 2 years, that’s OK! But to sacrifice those early years of funds in your retirement account earning compound interest? I’m not sure about that. Most people are what experts say “behind” on their retirement savings. Do most people not understand the  power of the longer your money is IN the market, vs the amount of money you PUT in the market? “The Money Guys” (Great podcast) https://moneyguy.com/  tell us for every dollar a 20-year-old puts in the market = $88 when they are 65! That’s AMAZING! I wish I was drinking that cool-aid when I was getting out of school! Of course, back in those days you had to give a blood and urine sample and swear on bible to get a student loan vs today. When my daughter was in school every Fall, she would get a “credit” on the bill which matched the Federal Student Loan amount each year. I would LOSE IT, and tell her, “Get down to that Bursar’s office and get that off!” I never checked that box on the FASFA! Here I am killing myself to fund that 529 plan for years, and they are giving “her” loans like candy! Thank God I was paying attention….Bottom line here, we need more education on the front end so people can make more informed decisions. Hey if you want to put blinders on and spend, spend, spend, in the early years and pick the most expensive college, Go at it!  But maybe while you are picking that high-priced college you can also decide what bridge you want to live under in your golden years. Just saying… Make good choice and control what you can control.

Financial Coaching. And the roll it can play…

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What IS financial coaching, you may ask? These days our lives are much more complicated than decades ago. In the “good old days” there was maybe a list of  6-10 ESSENCIAL monthly bills most people probably had.

Mortgage or rent, utility bill, homeowners’ insurance & car insurance. Maybe a car payment, property tax bill if it was not part of the mortgage payment.

Not much else, for EVERY Month bills. It seemed much easier to keep track of your monthly spending. Even credit cards were just used for “emergencies.”

These days, EVERYTHING is on “credit” or is a must Have! We borrow for college, we HAVE a cable bill, wi-fi bill, streaming services, cell phone bills to cover EVERYONE in the family. Maybe you have water delivered to the house vs drinking it from the tap. We eat more takeout food; we go out to eat more than years ago. We pay to have food delivered. We pay random people to pick us up and drive us places, we MUST have a credit card for MOST if not all of these things! Hey, I just switched my cell carrier, and to get the “deal”. Which did save me $100.00 a month, 😊You need to allow automatic payments on your credit card. They do not tell you that till the very end of the transaction, and it took 2 hours to get it set up! Long story, but at that point I was like, I just want out of here!

The point here is as a society we seem to “need” all this stuff.  Can you really survive without a cell phone? You need an App. for everything! I digress…

So, what does a Financial Coach have to do with all this? The world is busier, and we can easily go down a rabbit hole and overspend, which can lead to more debt than in the old days. A “Coach” is the person that helps you get your arms around your personal finance lifer. The “Coach” helps you face your fears, vs putting your head in the sand, thinking this will pass. It does not pass; it usually gets worse.  The “Coach” is that person that’s right by your side helping you make better decisions one step at as time. Money can be stressful when there is not enough, or when you are having a hard time changing your habits. People have life coaches, why not a  coach that helps people make changes in their financial life? People pay a coach to “force” them to work out or get on track with better eating habits. It makes sense, right?

It’s a thing! And I think it would be a cool gig to be part of! Talking to people about how to help them de-stress over money and help them create a feeling of being in control. I think I may do this!

Do you spend more on vacations than most?

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Do most Americans take vacation each year? Not just take vacation days from work, but an actual vacation.  Seems like it’s important to most people.  I get that, life these days is demanding and fast paced. Work stress is higher than it’s ever been and the cost of some of our necessities, like insurance, food and taxes has certainly gone up.  Yet a vacation is something most people put on their must have list.

According to Forbes. 40% of Americans plan to travel in 2024. 40% of Americans Plan to Travel More In 2024 Vs. 2023 – Forbes Advisor. The younger generation will travel more than others.  Is that a good thing? Probably… It’s a catch 22. Travel more when your young and healthy. Or older when it might not be as easy to travel? Maybe it’s something we just need to balance better. Balance as in the time and the cost. Real vacations build memories, and great experiences. It’s a way to spend time with family or friends and experience new things, or just unplug and relax with no schedule.

The average American will spend about $4.000 in 2024 on vacations. Maybe that’s one trip or two small trips. But its important to take some time away from the day to day grind and get away.

Maybe you drive to your destination vs fly, whatever works for you….

So where do we get the money for a vacation?  Maybe we plan ahead and squirrel some money into the savings account over a few months to get a chunk of the money set aside BEFORE you book the trip. The scary part is IF you put it all on a credit card and you do not ALLREADY have the money to pay that card off ASAP.  Booking a vacation usually requires you to pay with a credit card and that starts to add up quickly! It’s like doing all your Christmas shopping with a credit card. Then you wake up when you get home from that trip stressed, when you see your statement!  According to JD Powell, 51% of Americans carry a credit card balance. Survey: Many Americans aren’t paying their credit cards in full (yahoo.com)

So, while a vacation is well needed by most and let’s face it life is short, so lets do fun things and work that into our lives!  We also need to work it into our budgets. So, we make some cuts here and there or pick up extra hours with a side hustle, or something. Let’s find some extra coin in the budget to do fun things! But let’s book it when we know we have the cash to pay for it with no regrets!

What does it mean to be financially literate?

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We hear this term a lot these days. In general, most people are fairly “educated”. In the US a person can get a free education till the 12th grade, which in most states you have till your 21st birthday, to complete. Which is fair. Beyond that age… Well that’s a different topic all together.

MOST people are “literate” when they leave school, in general, or at least we hope so.

But school does not make us financially literate, not even a little. I thought school was supposed to prepare us for the real world. Yet it does not teach us ANYTHING about real adulting.

Did they teach you how to balance a checkbook in math class? NO! Yet they told us we needed algebra!  Understanding how a mortgage works or carrying a large balance on a credit card, or what compound interest is, would have been helpful back in those early days, instead of finding out the hard way. That’s how most of us start to figure things out. 

Not to mention how much simpler life was before the internet and you could not see how “great” everyone else’s life “IS” or appears to be. Banks did not just say, hey you make $50,000 a year, you DESERVE this $500,000 house, and we are going to give you the money for it, even though you only have $15,000 (aka 3%) to put down.

What always drove me crazy about this “low down payment’ thing, is HOW will you afford the monthly payments, IF you could barely save the down payment? Then the banks started making people pay PMI. Which was such a joke, because they made YOU the buyer insure your own loan in case you defaulted. NO risk for the banks. People were getting mortgages that had NO idea what they were signing up for. The bank or mortgage company is NOT the one that should tell you how much you can afford for a house, this is something WE should know/decide, as it’s different for everyone. But most people just go with “the bank said we qualify for more than we asked for!” Let’s get the bigger house! After all the bank said we could! The bank is running a business, they don’t care about you. No, they don’t teach us this in school either.

Same deal with credit cards. You get close to your max on a credit card, and you make at least your min. payment, They UP your limit. They want you to carry a balance, it’s good for their business.

These basic things are not taught in school, they are not discussed in most homes, well unless you are wealthy. The wealthy people DO talk to their kids about money, so they grow up in most cases knowing more than the rest of us. And those are just the basic things, never mind that scary word… “investing”! Rich people stuff, right?

The average midclass person looks at investing like it’s a form of gambling. Again, not the wealthy people, that is how they got wealthy!

When it comes down to it most people ARE NOT financially literate, and we need to change that.

Check out these stats from Moneyzine in the attached article.

US Financial Literacy Statistics 2024: Key Demographics & Cost (moneyzine.com)

 Our kids deserve to be educated and make better decisions early on in life vs learning the hard way which ends up wasting so much money that they will work so hard for.  There are many ways to get a better understanding about how money works these days. We have the internet, books, podcast….

As adults we have the power to be more educated about money, so we can make it less tabu for our kids. If the kids are of high school age or older, hey you can do it together! Be honest and upfront and tell them, we are going to learn together! 😊 You got this! Dig in, one topic at a time that you want to know more about. You might find you dig the subject! 😊

Credit cards, the good, the bad, & the ugly…

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Credit cards are like potato chips… It is hard to stop using them. Its even worse now a days with so much online fraud. It’s hard to get money back, due to fraud when you use a debit card vs credit card.  Since Covid more places do not take cash, everything must be on a credit card. The credit card companies want to give you points and cash back and all these “magical” things to make us feel like they really care about us! Come on, they are just large banks taking advantage of us!

Credit cards feel like poison to me sometimes. Unless you are a high earner, most people have credit card debt. According to Credit Donkey they found a statistic stating the Federal Reserve reported only 42% of households can pay their credit card bills in full each month. 23 Sobering Credit Card Debt Statistics (creditdonkey.com) Of the remaining 58% with credit card balances, most are paying more than the minimum, but the other half is only paying the minimum. The percentage of people with $1,000 or less on credit cards is at 15%. According to an article by Forbes magazine, Transunion reported at the end of 2023 the average credit card debt per consumer is just over $6.000! Average Credit Card Debt Study 2023 – Forbes Advisor If that’s per consumer its not unrealistic to think the average household could have more. These are scary stats and most of us have been or are still part of these stats. Its crazy how these little plastic cards can rack up debt so fast!

So how do we change this? I think the only way we can is to really understand our own habits and behaviors. The points game, ya, I personally can’t get sucked in to this. I feel like if I am not putting $5,000+ a month on a card I am not really getting anything for points. I cannot sleep knowing I have $5,000 on a credit card! You know I am not taking $5,000 out of my saving in one swoop to pay that bill! That also feels scary, even if I had the coin to do it! NOPE, both actions give me anxiety. Much easier to only use the card for certain things and set a comfortable limit for myself each month and do everything in my power to stay at that number if not under it. It’s hard! I have to work on my mental toughness EVERY month! It does make me more “mindful” of my purchases. Do I really need this?

How is this going to make me feel in a week, when I am facing this bill? I get we cannot just, NOT enjoy life and its little pleasures, but I do mentally weigh the reward of “the purchase”. I need things like gas in the car, and I usually need the credit card for that, but not for a coffee or lunch… I try to use more cash for those purchases. For some reason, mentally it’s harder to part with cash. Check out this article from Tally on the psychology of cash over credit. In some cases, people would spend 2-3 times the amount for the same product!   The Mindset of Using Cash vs. Credit — Tally (meettally.com) I know it’s very hard these days to NOT use a credit card, it’s like not having a smart phone. But maybe we need to look at our account balance every week or two to stay on top of the snowball effect. I also find sending extra cash say once a week, might not make the bill at the end of month so scary, so I don’t break out in a cold sweat paying the balance. Bottom line we all have to find ways to keep the balance in check. Maybe the first step if you cannot pay the balance in full each month is to be in that 15% of people with $1,000 or less? I would say that should be per household. That sounds more manageable to start, Agree? Then work from there. Don’t get lost in the points and the rewards and all that bull, if you are like most and carry a large balance. Remember the credit card companies are charging you on average 20%, they are not really giving you any deals here.  Getting in a good spot with credit card dept is VERY hard. Stick with it, dig in and face it. If you have more than one credit card, use the snowball effect method. Check out our FREE downloads on how this works. You are not alone; this is a major stressor for most of us. But you can do this! Stay focused and create new habits when it comes to credit cards! Talk to a friend about it, they may be in the same situation, and you can do this together! Nothing to be ashamed about, and it will be something to be proud of once on the other side! You/we got this!!!!

Saving for that emergency fund.

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Emergency Fund Savings:

We have all heard the saying, we should have an emergency fund, right. “They”, meaning the experts say this fund should be between 3-6 months of expenses. Not an easy task for most and can feel overwhelming for many. According to Nerdwallet  45% of Americans could not come up with $1,000 for an emergency. Most Americans Save, but Many Can’t Cover a $1,000 Emergency – NerdWallet  That might be a car repair, so you can get to work, a repair at home that can not wait…. The list goes on. Most people are saving money each month, which is great, and it’s usually in a retirement account and or a savings account. Yet, on average as a group we are falling short with short term “emergency” fund account. We have discussed many times if you really look at your monthly spending and your “habits” there is a good chance you can find an extra $100.00 plus a month to put away in an emergency fund account. Sure, it may take almost a year to get there, at that rate, but the process would be started. If you look at it more as a game and a motivator as to how do I cut out another $20.00 here and there, and transfer that right into savings, thing will happen quicker! The emergency fund is NOT an account that you get to look at the end of the year and say hey I save $1200 and did not need any major or unexpected expense, and then use that money for something like a vacation! Bankrate did a survey on people saving for an emergency or saving for travel. Travel Vs. Savings: Many Americans Are Prioritizing Wanderlust Amid Economic Uncertainty | Bankrate I get it, I want to travel more too, but I also do not want to be under the stress of having to reach for a credit card to pay for a plumber to come to the house for a leak or for new tires! Credit card bills are stressful! Let’s stay out of the rabbit hole. When we have an emergency fund there is a sense of calm and pride to know you do not have to rely on family, a last-minute high interest loan shark loan or the credit card. It’s hard. I get for some that emergency fund of say three months, might be a large number.  The real goal is to start and have an emergency fund for emergencies. 

Hopefully no real disasters come your way like a job loss while you are working on your savings account. Like every big challenge, you need to start the process with small changes and once you gain confidence from seeing the impact, it will get easier. Like most habits we are trying to change, you may stumble here and there, just get back at it, it’s not a failure. Let’s work toward that first $1,000 in emergency fund savings and use that momentum to do more! This is in reach! How cool would it be to be on the other side of the statistics, of who has a $1,000 or more in an emergency fund! You go this!

Happy Valentines Day!

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Money & Relationships

Personal finance is not always something that concerns only us.  If you are in a committed relationship or married, most likely you share finances with someone else. In many cases it seems like one person in the relationship “handles” the finances. In a perfect world it would be a team effort and both parties would be open to discussing the monthly expenses and spending. I’m not saying every dollar needs to be accounted for. I’m also not saying each person can’t have their “own” money either. But the important “reoccurring” expenses, aka bills. Should be known by both parties. I know, easier said than done…  We know most couples do not share everything about money, but how do we work with this situation? Not always easy to be the only one “cutting” back and looking at every expense in the online banking app., hey someone has to watch the store!  Statistics say over 45% of couples argue “occasionally’ about money. Ya my guess is that its higher than 45% and its labeled occasionally because it’s easier to just NOT talk about it.  Either way unfortunately one of the two people in the relationship carries most of the stress around money and the other just wants to ignore the topic and might “start” the argument, to cover up their lack of knowing the real status of the household finances, good or bad. In a perfect world you do what the experts tell you and simply sit down and perhaps have a conversation over a spreadsheet of the expenses and savings goals. Like a scene out of the Brady Bunch, right? The argument starts when you ask for that sit down meeting… ☹ If it’s so easy why are most couples still arguing about money? I certainly don’t have the answers here… I can just tell you; you are not along….

Budget Apps.

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Budgeting Apps, could they be helpful???

I don’t know about you, but I have been thinking about doing a deeper dive in to some of these online tools that help you really see where you are spending your money. Each month I DO use my own bank’s online budget tool that does a great job at showing you where you are spending your money. My bank breaks it down by category, which you must look at VERY carefully. For instance, under “insurance” for me it has pulled in things like, Long Term Care insurance I pay into because it’s an Insurance Company. I’m not that old, but for me it was the right move and cheap due to my age. But I would NEVER get that back if I “Cancelled it” even if it was by mistake. I also saw that my ROTH contributions were packed under the “insurance” umbrella as well…Again NOT something I want to cancel.

So, if you do use your own bank’s online tools to see where your money is going, understand what each transaction is accually, before trying to cancel it. I also noticed on my own banking app. That it told me my cable bill was $16.30 higher than normal? I have NO idea why, but now I am watching it! I will also have to pull out that bill and see what changed! Such a pain… But these companies just randomly add things to our bills! Did someone in the house rent a movie that was NOT FREE?! With what I pay for cable & internet, ONLY FREE movies allowed. That cable bill is a topic on its own… 30 years ago it was just the cost of electricity to watch the news! Don’t get me started…

BUT then there are things like subscriptions I have TRIED to cancel more than once and are STILL showing up! Frustrating!!! Do I give it another shot and try to cancel these AGAIN? Do I call my bank and see if we can block these two merchants, and can they do that??? My fear is the bank will want to issue me a NEW credit card and the two-three things I do not want to have laps will get lost in the shuffle.

It all adds up, and before we know it an extra $100.00+ per month is out the window on really nothing. Look at it like this that’s over $1,000 a year and for that money I can get a long weekend away someplace near a beach each summer!

While the App. MINT is shutting down on Jan. 1, 2024, there is a lot of talk around Rocket Money, which is FREE. But let’s face it, nothing is FREE.  So yes, it’s FREE to download, but I get it they need to make money too.  Rocket Money is a budgeting App. and for a fee can do a lot more.  The paid monthly fee is $4.00-$12.00 a month. But it can do things like get rid of your subscriptions you do not want any more, maybe even get some money back for you??? It says it can possibly negotiate rates for you. I am assuming this is things like an interest rate on a credit card if it’s really high right now.  If you have a lot going on in your money world and see lots of things you pay for each month you want gone or need some help managing it to get your arms around your monthly spend, maybe these online apps. are worth exploring. After all the $60 a year you may pay for the app. Might be less than the “found” money you find EACH month! Take some time to look at your own bank’s “features” online.  Make sure you understand what is in each category and make sure it is “junk” for you each month and then do some research on IF an app. Is right for you. There are some great tools out there these days and they may help get us better at understanding and seeing our own habits. Once we SEE it we are more willing to make those small changes.

Make sure you look at the app’s rating from many sites, and the Better Business Bureau. Read all the fine print on the terms & conditions as well, like how to cancel the service should you want to.  Good luck if you decide to dig in here and if you do pull the trigger!!